Retirement:
Don't Lose Your Sense of Purpose
What Will Retirement
Be Like?
"It
will be great to do what I want when I want."
"Whew,
no more office politics to deal with!"
"At last,
the government will be paying me for a change."
"I'm finally
F-R-E-E-E!!"
These statements
reflect some of the positive things about
retirement that almost everyone looks forward
to. Unless it's due to illness, the reason
most retirees leave their jobs is because
they want to, not because they're pushed out.
So for most, that last day on the job is a
joyful one filled with an invigorating sense
of personal freedom.
But many retirees
are not prepared for another feeling that
often follows that last day of work: a profound
sense of loss.
You've Got
Company
A study sponsored by Civic Ventures, Temple
University, and the Center for Intergenerational
Learning surveyed retired people of all economic
levels, and found that the majority had one
thing in common: They felt lonely. It wasn't
for lack of friends, family and active social
lives. Instead, it was a loneliness for the
kinds of relationships they had established
during their working years. Almost all workers
are part of teams of some kind, and those
teams have daily problems to solve, solutions
to work out, new ideas to introduce.
An architect
who spent her life drawing plans had an office
full of people who understood her work and
appreciated her creative new ideas. A science
teacher of many years had near-celebrity status
among his peers and his students, who always
seemed to be talking about the cool things
they were learning in his class. The manager
of quality-control at an auto-assembly plant
felt pride in his team and got a special thrill
each fall when the new models came out and
he saw them on the road.
At
retirement, they may all have one thing in
common: loss of a sense of purpose. The architect's
purpose was to create satisfying designs,
the teacher's to stimulate young minds, the
quality-control manager's to assure that his
company's products measured up to top standards.
What will replace the job satisfactions that
were so much a part of their identities?
These days,
with rumblings that social security might
not last and with health care costs escalating
alarmingly, many retirees find that instead
of feeling the total freedom they dreamed
about, they are haunted by worries about whether
they have enough money saved to actually enjoy
their retired years. The fact that people
are living so much longer than they did a
decade ago should seem like good news-but
the prospect of how to finance all those extra
years is troublesome to many people when they
leave the workforce.
It's a fact
that retirement can be an unsettling time.
But it doesn't have to be.
Many people
have a different view of retirement. One respondent
in the study mentioned above said: "I
like to think of myself as retiring TO something
as opposed to retiring FROM something."
In other words,
retirement shouldn't be a stopping point,
but a continuation of the journey through
life. Why toss all the experience you've
gained through years of working? You're one
of the "wise ones" now. There are
people out there who value you.
A 2005 comprehensive
study released by AARP and Towers Perrin,
a human resources consulting firm, showed
that many employers are beginning to recognize
the value of older workers. It's that old-fashioned
work ethic-you know, expecting to actually
show up on time and give a fair day's work
for a fair day's wage. In its September, 2006,
Bulletin, AARP honored 50 US employers who
are "friendly" to older workers.
But doesn't
going back to work defeat the whole idea of
being retired? Isn't it supposed to be time
to stop showing up for work when someone else
says you should? You wanted freedom, remember?
Do you have to give that up to regain that
sense of purpose?
Absolutely
not.
Thousands
of people of all ages are making money in
home businesses that allow them to be their
own bosses and retain the exhilaration
of the freedom to run their own lives. At
the same time, they're able to generate extra
income to bulk up the nest egg and provide
substantially more financial security for
the 20, 30 or more years to come. Freedom
from financial worry is just as important
as freedom from job demands if you're going
to enjoy the rest of your life. And as a home-based
entrepreneur, you can still enjoy all the
dreams you planned. As long as you have a
computer and a phone, you can run your "home"
business from anywhere you call home-including
your vacation cottage, RV, or even your favorite
beach.
If you're retired,
or soon will be, now is the time to get started.
You already have the skills you need. With
a little extra help from the experts, you
can fine-tune them and start right away to
put a sense of purpose back in your life.
Just fill out
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on a home based business that you can operate
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